{"id":268,"date":"2015-03-28T16:52:51","date_gmt":"2015-03-28T04:52:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ensing.co.nz\/?p=268"},"modified":"2015-03-28T16:53:45","modified_gmt":"2015-03-28T04:53:45","slug":"giving-yourself-to-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ensing.co.nz\/?p=268","title":{"rendered":"Giving yourself to Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div>I was delighted when author Deborah Shephard asked if she could use a line from my poem &#8216;Love Affair&#8217; &nbsp;for the title of her new book &nbsp;<i>Giving yourself to life &#8211; a journal of pain, hope and renewal, C<\/i>alico 2015.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>In her introduction, Deborah Shephard points out that &#8216;Mansfield too lived with debilitating ill health and died at just thirty-four from a heart condition and the ravages of tuberculosis.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>&nbsp;In the poem, Katherine Mansfield is sitting in&nbsp;one of the&nbsp;many little hotels in the south of France where she stayed while seeking a cure for consumption.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Her guest has failed to arrive and she is dining alone at a table with a white napkin&#8217;.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>              <!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>   <o:documentproperties>    <o:template>Normal.dotm<\/o:template>    <o:revision>0<\/o:revision>    <o:totaltime>0<\/o:totaltime>    <o:pages>1<\/o:pages>    <o:words>92<\/o:words>    <o:characters>527<\/o:characters>    <o:company>PID<\/o:company>    <o:lines>4<\/o:lines>    <o:paragraphs>1<\/o:paragraphs>    <o:characterswithspaces>647<\/o:characterswithspaces>    <o:version>12.0<\/o:version>   <\/o:documentproperties>   <o:officedocumentsettings>    <o:allowpng><\/o:allowpng>   <\/o:officedocumentsettings>  <\/xml>< ![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>   <w:worddocument>    <w:zoom>0<\/w:zoom>    <w:trackmoves>false<\/w:trackmoves>    <w:trackformatting><\/w:trackformatting>    <w:punctuationkerning><\/w:punctuationkerning>    <w:drawinggridhorizontalspacing>18 pt<\/w:drawinggridhorizontalspacing>    <w:drawinggridverticalspacing>18 pt<\/w:drawinggridverticalspacing>    <w:displayhorizontaldrawinggridevery>0<\/w:displayhorizontaldrawinggridevery>    <w:displayverticaldrawinggridevery>0<\/w:displayverticaldrawinggridevery>    <w:validateagainstschemas><\/w:validateagainstschemas>    <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false<\/w:saveifxmlinvalid>    <w:ignoremixedcontent>false<\/w:ignoremixedcontent>    <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false<\/w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>    <w:compatibility>     <w:breakwrappedtables><\/w:breakwrappedtables>     <w:dontgrowautofit><\/w:dontgrowautofit>     <w:dontautofitconstrainedtables><\/w:dontautofitconstrainedtables>     <w:dontvertalignintxbx><\/w:dontvertalignintxbx>    <\/w:compatibility>   <\/w:worddocument>  <\/xml>< ![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>   <w:latentstyles DefLockedState=\"false\" LatentStyleCount=\"276\">   <\/w:latentstyles>  <\/xml>< ![endif]-->    <!--[if gte mso 10]>  \n\n<style>   \/* Style Definitions *\/  table.MsoNormalTable  \t{mso-style-name:\"Table Normal\"; 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